My father in law lives in a WONDERFUL area in the Texas Hill Country. He is within walking distance of eclectic and interesting antique shops, wonderful restaurants with amazing views, the famously old and very charming Greune Hall, and numerous tube (or “toob”) rental huts staffed with rowdy college students on Summer Break. He lives along the Guadalupe River in New Braunfels, Texas- a place often visited by our college friends on hot Summer weekends when they are itching to “re-live the glory days”. Typically we eat, sit, talk, and float down the river in oversized black tubes. This is a young man’s “sport”, if you will. While it seems relaxing and serene, it can turn into a stressful situation at the drop of a hat.
CJ, a friend we met at Texas A&M a few years back, came with us a couple of years ago and was excited to partake in the tubing festivities. It started out as usual: we woke up late, piled in the car, rented some tubes, and walked down to the water. The staff at the tube rental warned us that it has been raining the past few days and the river was higher than usual. We shrugged it off, got in, and started drifting down the river. .
We were drifting faster than usual but that did not bother us. The faster we floated, the closer we were to lunch! Towards the end of the float, we hit some quick rapids. Most of us were tossed out of our tubes and actually suffered a few small cuts and wounds. We all came up, started laughing, and moved to the bank so that we could get back in our tubes. After a quick survey of the group, I realized CJ was missing. In a panic, I started yelling his name. My husband spotted him struggling under the water and swam over to grab him and pull him to the bank. .
It turns out that CJ never learned to swim. He was born in a country where swimming lessons were not a normal thing that parents did for their children (which is beside the point, however, because MANY children in the US never learn to swim, either). He was embarrassed about not knowing how to swim and therefore did not tell any of us about it. He was afraid that if we knew, we would be less likely to invite him along on the trip. .
“I thought I could handle just sitting in a tube and floating down the river,” he whimpered. .
As parents, it is our job to set our children up for the rest of their lives. We introduce them to different foods, we encourage them when they are learning to walk and run. We make sure they learn to ride a bike, drive a car, and play sports. By the time they become young adults, we have done our best to achieve many goals we have set for them. Hopefully, we have created socially mature and physically able people who can (for the most part) think rationally and creatively. .
It’s our job to also arm them with the most basic and seemingly natural skills, too. Had CJ been taught to swim as a child, he would have never had to have been a 27 year old man with something to hide. He was missing two skills which essentially could have ended his short life. Obviously, he was missing the ability to swim. Simple as that. Secondly, he was missing the confidence and maturity it takes to admit that and to do something about it. .
A few weeks passed and I asked CJ why he hadn’t pursued learning to swim on his own and his answer did not surprise me. Just as he was embarrassed to tell me that he couldn’t swim, he was also too embarrassed to sign up for adult swim classes. He was worried about what he’d look like in the pool at the local YMCA as he learned the strokes. I don’t blame him for that. .
These days, I am a HUGE advocate for teaching small kids to swim. The sooner you can get them in the water learning skills that they need to survive, the better. It only takes a moment to loose a life that could have been saved through preventative measures. There are many great swim schools in the Houston area. Some have parent and child classes, some have private classes, and some will even send a coach out to your house (if you have a pool of your own). Let the professionals coach the physical part of this. I urge you to work on the confidence part! Below are some tips for getting little ones in the water early from Karen Murphy, a swimming safety blogger. Her blog discusses difference topics for different ages of kids learning to swim as well as safety and tips for adults. Her blog is: www.teachyourkidstoswim.com. .
Love, Ms. Paige
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What You Can Expect From Infants in the Water
- Developing comfort in the water
- Some conceptual understanding of movement in the water
What You Shouldn’t Expect From Infants in the Water
- Independent Swimming
- Water Safety
The most important things you can do when your child is this age:
- Make sure the environment is safe
- Give him plenty of experience in the water
Kids this age are too young to understand the danger of drowning, and they’re too young to coordinate their bodies well enough to truly swim. Just think about how they move on land. At the younger end of the range, they’ve just started crawling. At the older end, they’re toddling around. Their mental and physical development doesn’t give them the ability to swim at this point.
At this age—as at every age—making sure that they’re well supervised whenever they’re near or in water and that any pool is secured with an appropriate fence are the most important ways to keep them safe.
Once that’s taken care of, you can practice getting comfortable and learning to move in the water. You can progress to getting your child’s face wet, gliding, and floating. With enough practice, your kids will be able to toddle around in the pool as well as they do on land.
A Word about Infant Swimming
There are programs that work to teach kids this age to hold their breath underwater and flip onto their backs to float. Use common sense. Until they’re cognitively and physically ready to swim, this kind of training is unlikely to hurt them*, but only supervision will keep them safe.
*There are risks associated with using infant swimming training, including the possibility that an infant will aspirate water. Use common sense. When in doubt, err on the side of caution.